Well, it was of social consideration as well as the other: the new year lies were to smooth some bumps or soften some feelings, or sometimes even provide an easy excuse from a knotty situation a lot of knitted relationships were: some people lie to others; some innocent guess at one of them; a very trivial one, some might even say pretty common, kind of untruth, one might assume. None of these ridiculous parameters on what, why, or how white lies would serve toward better communication could ever develop empathy toward each other.
“I am almost ready”
The classical phrase when stated by ‘her’ is somewhat significant; it really is but a deterrent method in the undertaking of something major-like hairstyling or choosing those perfect shoes. Mostly it signifies nil except a promise-that everything would be running a whole lot quicker than anticipated beforehand-in those last minutes.
“I’m okay”
If a woman speaks that she’s “okay” about something, she usually is not, or else, there is a case that this little lie is used as a defensive shield, stating that she is not yet ready to talk about a certain issue, or that she wants to test if one could notice her distress according to her.
“On Sale”
Now that’s quite a brow-lifter for this kind of purchase, so “on sale,” another quick defense in the guiltlessly indulging frivolity-in-manipulation-to-ease guilt-for-buys-that-are-not-really-necessary but to some extent, give joy to the heart.
Not hungry just polite
This mostly happens at the start of a date, even when looking at the menu due to low maintenance. The woman should not appear-nakedly hungry just to end up devouring half of your fries. Mostly social pressure, not actual hunger.
“I didn’t see your text”
Of course, she read it but really too busy doing too many things to reply. Actually, she just needed time to think of the correct and then forgot about it response to it.
“Awesome family you have”
Some family dynamics can be complicated. She might love them, but calling your cousin irritating or mother overbearing is probably much more subtle for peace and good support for you both.
“I bought this ages ago”
So when she claims to flaunt shiny new ultra-expensive-looking strands, she can turn out saying this to make it old. This avoided having the converse about shopping habits and some other issues with the amount spent.
“It’s alright; I forgot about it anyway”
She will say that nothing really matters to avoid making you guilty. Actually, she might bear in mind that, but your feelings are more important to her than the mistake you made.
“I am just tired”
This last excuse is very straightforward, for any sad, cranky, or just socially drained reason, without going to any long, deep emotional explanation.
“I didn’t actually spend that much time on my hair”
It takes so much to her to appear totally casual glam: she might be saying she “just threw this on” to make it seem like it just happened naturally when she really put an entire hour into that “undone” look.
“I’m just five minutes from here” very much similar to “almost ready”
It’s a geographical line. Most likely just getting into the car, either held at a red light a block away, or getting into the car just now. That’s to keep you from getting too frustrated.
“No, you don’t look any different”
At the moment you will ask that question about whether or not you look like you’ve got a bit of weight on, or whether a haircut looks bad, the answer she normally gives will be the supportive but oftentimes-untrue. In her mind it protects your confidence while making you comfortable in your own skin, even if there is some gradual inference in her mindset.
